Dear Astrology Room
I am Cancerian (3/7/63), my partner is Scorpion (30/10/62). I have had a terrible 2011, my dad died and my husband left me. I have now moved over 100 miles from home and started a new life. My new partner seems reluctant to commit and i feel lost in my new surroundings. What will the new year bring for me?
I am sorry to hear that things have been so tough for you, and that you are still feeling unsettled and insecure. For any Cancerian, a sense of belonging and 'home' is hugely important in their life, as is their parents. You have made a brave move which is probably the result of your adventurous Sagittarian moon's cry for a 'new life'. This moon is ironically, at odds with your cancerian side, which needs to feel close and committed and to stick with the tried and trusted. The moon in Sagittarius needs space and gives others lots of it too, but sun in Cancer needs to possess and to feel part of a family or clan, or to belong to someone else. So you've done what your 'moon' intuitively felt was right, to move on and away, and indeed is right for you.
Feeling lost, is normal for a Cancerian in new surroundings, especially if your new partner seems reluctant to make a permanent statement of a bond. Yet you must learn patience too. Your moon is an impatient one, and you want results fast. Scorpios aren't renowned for speedy commitment. However, you may also be feeling 'lost' because right now, Neptune is squaring your moon, gnawing away the adventurous spirit, dissolving it under a cloud of confusion. Your partner too is under the spell of Neptune's illusory influence, and he may not be able to see the wood for the trees.
Please do give me a call, as I really think you would truly benefit for some far deeper insights into yourself and your partner's personal year ahead.
With best wishes for 2012