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I Lack a Sense of Belonging and Security - Please Help!

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Dear Astrology Room

I wonder if you could answer my question or give me some guidance, please?

The birthdate is 22/12/1970 time at 11.50 pm.

During my childhood one parent was ill and for whatever reason, the other didn't look after me and my sibling, we were placed into foster care and moved to another a while later.
Once my parents came home from hospital we were placed home with them and by this time the other parent had moved on with another partner and turned their back on us. The parent who had a period of illness has been very cruel to me all my life, so has my sibling.  

I have grown up feeling scared, unsupported and lacked a sense of belonging and security.  I have tried my hardest to be brave and pursue my goals but life has thrown me boulders which have prevented me from creating the life I have wanted. I have been told that I am on a spiritual path and that everything will work out in time.

I have endured so much bullying by family, so-called friends, colleagues and partners in the past that I have distanced myself from everyone.

I have walked away from family, am no longer in employment and do not have any friends at the moment. I have been single for many years and am hoping that some positive people come into my life soon who will help me to continue on my path and help others who are vulnerable and need support. I really want a career, genuine friends and a partner in time. Are you able to offer some guidance on this matter, please?

Kindest Regards


Dear Capricorn 

With your Sun sign Capricorn, a good, secure and happy childhood, would have been essential to you and I see from your chart, that you never really felt safe growing up. This is a lot of responsibility for a Capricorn child to deal with, and this lack of childhood indicates that you have never lost your inner child. Don’t hide this wonderful trait, but use it to think of things to do that you will enjoy. I love your sense of humour and your chart tells me that you are an asset to everyone you meet. If you have people who have ridiculed or bullied you, then stay away. I see two family members, still know how to take you down with a simple sentence.

I also see from your chart that you do have some sort of a network of support set up and I must ask you if it is laying dormant, or if you are using it to better your life and enjoy each day more.

Your hard times, have actually acted as a Talisman now that you are older, for you have already admitted that you know who the bad people in your life are. Take steps to end this year, with a circle of friends who makes you feel good about yourself and you will soon begin to look forward to each new day. By the way did you now that 2020 is destined to help you grow and to move on to new interests. What do you like doing? The best place to meet like minded people is by doing things you enjoy! Try to find ways to make money and to work doing what you like. I think your sign would enjoy working with animals. But hey, I said 2020 was your year, so what do you fancy doing with the rest of your amazing life!

Love and Light

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