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Dear Astrology Room
I have been lonely and unhappy for a while now and wonder when will i start to feel like my old self again and feel happy? I split from someone a few years ago but we kept in touch and have met a few times since we split and that just rekindled my feelings.
We speak every day and when i say how about meeting up, he changes the subject. I know i should move on but i also know this person is scared of showing his feelings because he has been hurt very badly a few times in the past. What should i do? Should i move on or just wait until he feels he can really open up again? I am a Scorpio 28/10/1969 and he is an Aquarius 27/1/1957.
Jane
Dear Jane
Well, the bad news is that Scorpio and Aquarius are fiercely attracted to each other, but have little in common. Scorpio wants completion, permanence, possession, utter bonding and I'm afraid Aquarius doesn't. Your good news is that you have lots of planets in air signs, like Libra and Gemini who, like you, like space and freedom too. But Scorpio is stronger in your chart, and therefore you need to have someone on a long-term basis. I'm afraid Aquarius doesn't like much that's permanent. However, if you are willing to stay friends and lovers forever, he might oblige. The other news, is that you will get through this because now the planets are changing for the better in your chart, and you'll soon realise you're better out of this relationship and into another. There's no opening up with this guy, because there's nothing to open. He may have been hurt, who hasn't? But he's not going to be in any situation to get close to you again until the moment you have 'moved on'. But don't give in to this game, take the chance to move on and make a new happy life for yourself.
Best wishes
Sarah
