Why is it that you can love someone but you just don't like them? We all set out in life equipped with a basic nature, which is gradually influenced by our friends, our lovers and our surroundings.
However by far the greatest influence on us is that exerted by our star sign. Claire Petulengro is here to tell you if you are set to become star crossed lovers, or if it is just plain old lust that is behind your desire for the object of your affections.
You are known to be incredibly sexy but you need to be romanced if you are to give your heart. One night stands or casual sex are usually out of the question. You relish new relationships as an exciting adventure to be explored. Initially attracted by physical appearance and reputation you usually have to be in love with a person to become physically involved with them. Jumping straight into a physical relationship will usually cause regret.
Best Date: Fellow Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra and Sagittarius.
Fair Date: Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn and Aquarius.
Dodgy Date: Taurus, Virgo and Pisces.
One of the greatest flirts of the zodiac, you are often accused of being a tease. Once in love though, you are not easily led astray. When you commit yourself it is usually for keeps. Promiscuity can be a problem but it doesn't usually last for long as, being an earth sign, the home making instinct and the need to put down roots takes over. Dominant in lovemaking you show your feelings by actions not words.
Best Date: Virgo, Capricorn and Scorpio.
Fair Date: Cancer, Libra, Leo, Pisces and Taurus.
Dodgy Date: Gemini, Sagittarius, Aquarius and Aries.
Sex for you is a way of life and you are very much aware of your appeal. No one could ever accuse you of being shy or inhibited. You ooze sex appeal and without any effort can seduce the sign of your choice. You don't need to feel in love to get physical. The women of this sign can often leave a man feeling deflated with the coolness they exude. Don't bother with affairs as you make lousy liars.
Best Date: Aries, Gemini, Libra and Aquarius.
Fair Date: Leo, Scorpio and Sagittarius.
Dodgy Date: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn and Pisces.
As lovers you are responsive, generous and undemanding as long as your partner appears happy, but your need for emotional security can often lead to unhappy affairs. You are incredibly sensitive and, if involved with a stronger sign, can be easily made to feel hurt and inadequate. Passion and love go hand in hand and you hardly ever experience one without the other.
With the right partner you are confident and self possessed.
Best Date: Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio and Pisces.
Fair Date: Aries, Taurus, Libra, Sagittarius and Capricorn.
Dodgy Date: Gemini, Leo and Aquarius.
Sex and relationships are exciting to you. You don't leave much to the imagination! Once hurt or upset though you can shut off completely and have been known to use sex as a weapon to get your own way. This leads to resentment and is often the reason a relationship can break down. Physically attractive to the opposite sex you are a little too aware of your natural appeal.
Best Date: Aries, Leo and Sagittarius.
Fair Date: Taurus, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius and Pisces.
Dodgy Date: Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio and Capricorn.
On the surface you can appear a prude but still waters run deep. Under the placid exterior lies a real sex bomb. You are not promiscuous and don't believe in casual affairs. Relationships are very private and important to you. You find it impossible to hide your emotions and don't believe in trying to. But when you let yourself go, you can really shock with your intensity and lack of inhibition.
Best Date: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn and Pisces.
Fair Date: Scorpio, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
Dodgy Date: Aries, Gemini, Leo and Libra.
You see sex as a great challenge and use flattery and charm to get what you want. Sex appeal is important to you and you also need reassurance. It is the need to be wanted. You give the impression you have a great deal of experience, which I'm sure many of you have. You only reveal what you want a lover to know about your feelings and can leave declarations of love too late. The chase can sometimes feel better than the catch for you.
Best Date: Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
Fair Date: Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Libra and Pisces.
Dodgy Date: Virgo, Scorpio and Capricorn.
You are a most uninhibited personality and success in love is very important to you. One derogatory remark and your confidence is left flagging. Your need for constant reassurance can become a problem. Masterful lovers and great seducers. You are passionate, affectionate and responsive. Watch out that your insecurities do not get in the way of a good relationship. You are all too often looking for a problem thatÕs not there.
Best Date: Taurus, Cancer, Pisces, Leo and Virgo.
Fair Date: Aries, Libra, Scorpio and Sagittarius.
Dodgy Date:Gemini, Capricorn and Aquarius.
You are very generous and considerate lovers but your deep rooted self doubts can cause personal conflict and lead you to become over demanding and selfish. Torrid lovers, you need to possess both the body and soul of a partner. You can make someone feel as if they are the only one in the world. Rejection is a problem for you and your biggest downfall. Very open in the conversation of sex, you can often be the cause for gossip.
Best Date: Aries, Leo, Libra and Aquarius.
Fair Date: Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces.
Dodgy Date: Taurus, Scorpio and Capricorn.
Sometimes appearing rather cold towards love, you need the right partner to bring out your best and to feel fulfilled. Only then will you show your true feelings. Worries and anxieties in a relationship make it destined for disaster, so a partner will need to be flexible and able to follow your lead. Warm and responsive as a lover you often leave ex partners in the background.
Best Date: Taurus and Virgo.
Fair Date: Aries, Cancer, Capricorn and Pisces.
Dodgy Date: Gemini, Leo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
Self assured and with strong sex appeal you attract partners with very little effort. Very modern in attitude you like to shop around before you buy. If you decide on marriage then you are fairly certain to be faithful. Demonstrative and natural lovers, you like to explore and will need a fairly open minded partner. The temptation to talk about your conquests can become a problem and should be resisted.
Key word=Open minded
Best Date: Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius.
Fair Date: Aquarius, Aries, Leo and Virgo.
Dodgy Date: Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces and Capricorn.
Reputed to be one of the sexiest signs of the zodiac. Your flair for dramatics can make for a most turbulent relationship. You do not indulge easily in sexual involvement. It has to mean something. You love to flirt though and can often find yourself in sticky situations when you go too far. Sex to you is a very private thing. Dirty jokes do not amuse you. Sweet talk always softens you and you hate people who are too forward.
Best Date:Cancer, Virgo and Scorpio.
Fair Date: Pisces, Taurus, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Capricorn.
Dodgy Date: Gemini, Aries and Aquarius.
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