Romantic Revelations by Rhianne
So, the inevitable has happened, you’ve made room for Mr Right and lo and behold he showed up. Ok, so he may have been a little later than expected but he finally arrived Whoop!
But wait a moment, it’s not all going to plan, your best friend who set you up on the blind date has recently stated that she feels you’re now not seeing her as much and she feels left out. Crikey! What to do?
Sarah your best mate for over 10 years is a Scorpio and feels things very strongly, there’s a real depth to her emotions and when she feels as though her nose has been put out of joint it can sometimes seem as though there’s no reasoning with her.
Your new guy Derek, a Taurus can’t seem to see what all the fuss is about, “You call her each week for a chat, isn’t that enough?” he says to you. He just can’t understand the problem.
Meanwhile you (Libra) are stuck in the middle trying to please everyone and feeling completely torn and deflated.
So, What’s The Solution?
Ok. Let’s look at this from an astrological perspective for a little clarity.
Scorpio’s are very intense with their emotions, Libran’s are quite cerebral and figure things out logically, whereas Taureans just like things to be ok and not want to create a fuss. Taureans have an optimistic point of view and generally feel sure that things will just work out eventually.
To address this issue and find common ground the first thing to do would be to acknowledge your friends’ emotions. What she’s really looking for here is validation and for some understanding.
Next speak to her in a language she understands, the language of emotions and let her know what your friendship means to you and how it makes you feel that she isn’t happy. Ask her what she thinks would be a good way forwards and really listen to what she has to say. Then Act on it!
Next, have a chat with your new guy, let him know the solution you have come to, Taureans don’t like the fuss and faff but show them a solution and a way forward and you’ll have them on board in no time at all.
By looking at things from the perspective of each person's astrological sign and element and then working things out in a way that makes sense to each person you will find that the process runs a lot smoother and solutions are found much easier.
Let’s also take a look at the Tarot and see what information can be added:
Page of Wands, Six of Pentacles, The Devil
Ok great so what we have here is the Page of Wands which speaks about finding new pathways forwards, it about not allowing the situation to stagnate but finding a way ahead and looking at all options.
The Six of Pentacles is about balance so this is about you having to juggle both your new man and your best friend and confirmation of you trying to keep things on an even keel.
The Devil is interesting because it’s reminding you not to let things get out of control, not to make a big deal out of this and to quickly come to a resolution. It can also indicate that because of this situation your own energy has perhaps got a little out of whack so once this situation is resolved you can then plan to spend a little time on yourself to get those lovely Libran scales of yours back in balance!
Tune back next week for more Astrological Insight, Wisdom from the Tarot and Practical Solutions.
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